"It goes by so fast ..."

Dad here, with a long overdue post about the kiddos.

First, our sweet little Vivian, now 20 months old.

Words cannot express how much of a true gift it is to have this little girl in my life. Her toothy smile and sweet little cackle, the way she swings her arms when she runs, the way she says her name so clearly now, and “Daddy” and “I love you” … all moments of the deepest and truest happiness. She is so whip-smart, and puts things together in her mind in the most amazing ways. Max was an early talker; his pre-school teachers and other parents were always commenting on this vocabulary. But Vivian is even ahead of him at this stage. She says things like “Old Macdonald, Daddy’s iPad, me”  when she wants to sing along. Or "Me have cracker, too?" Or “watermelon heavy” when she tries to pick one up. She knows what clothes she wants to wear, so don't go trying to put on her flower t-shirt whne she wants to wear her favorite purple rainbow one! She loves running around in circles with her big brother, giggling the whole time and actually loves playing with his legos and superheros with him. She likes to vroom-vroom cars around, something Max has never really been into. I think any illusions we had that having a girl would be a mellower experience have been dashed long ago. She is a constant buzz of kinetic energy, which has been challenging, even for seasoned veteran parents like us! She won’t sit still for more than about 20 seconds, so restaurants are basically “OK, you eat, I’ll walk her around, and then we’ll switch.” Not exactly a fun time. Oh, and she’s a terrible sleeper. She usually goes down fine, but just won’t stay asleep for more than 3-4 hours before waking up. So she’s still not sleeping through the night. We were feeling pretty close a few months back but she’s regressed. Oh well, one day she’ll figure it out and we’ll all sleep a lot better!

Now, my big boy Max, about to turn 6 …

It’s hard to believe he’s about to start kindergarten.  Mom and dad are both feeling emotional about this major milestone. Every since Max was born, other parents say “it goes by so fast” … I think this is the first point where it truly hits home. He is very excited about starting school, and based on his pre-school experience, I have loads of confidence in his ability to make the transition. He loves to learn (maybe not so much when Dad’s trying to teach him, but that’s OK) and is always the most vocal participant in class and camp (which we'll have to be wary of.) Max is also blossoming into quite an athlete. His ability to dribble a basketball with both hands, crossover and shoot off the dribble is fun to see. And he absolutely loves it, which is the most important thing. He’s also into baseball too, and has really improved catching and throwing even since his first year of t-ball this spring (Dad was his coach!) He loves going to Mariners games (especially the food in the Safeco suite) and one very gratifying thing is to see his growing interest in not only playing sports but following sports teams. That’s something I’ve done all my life, so its cool to see the spark of that in him too … we’ll see how it develops. Sports aside, Max is also really into performing in general and puts on little plays for us (mostly about superheroes), even leading a spontaneous little prayer meeting with us and Paw-Paw and GJ  after going to vacation bible school (which he loved.) He’s a little leader and loves to be in the spotlight, but not in a show-off way, at least not yet.  He’s also getting into space, and really likes an iPad app that quizzes him on the planets and stars. He’s a very well rounded kid in his interests. With his intellect and willingness to converse with anybody, kid or adult, if he can get his tempestuous emotions in check (no thanks to mom and dad for that trait), he’s going to do some amazing things in school and life. He will no matter what. It will be so fulfilling to watch and help him grow.

It’s been said so many times, but couldn’t be more spot-on … being a parent is the single most rewarding and challenging thing you can do. I’m so very lucky to have such a great family (including a super mom and wife!) I need to keep that in mind every day.